Personally, I'm attracted to long hair and glasses, with a clean, almost sophisticated appearance (jeans count in that category, btw). When I see the sagging pants and oversized shirt, I think they look sloppy and need to pull their pants up. But pants that are too tight aren't all that appealing either . . .

Moderately independent for me.

Blah, my brain stopped working.

I think you shouldn't really worry over this. If the guy ignores you, then you probably should move on and find some other guy, one who's a big sweetheart and will be fair to you.

If anything, that guy probably owes you a straight out answer to whether or not he likes you.